My bf wants me to only wear high heels?

He has asked that all me shoes have 4" heels and I get rid of all my flat shoes? What do you think? I like wearing heels but is this to much?

My bf wants me to only wear high heels?
get him to wear them too and see how he feels. say that unless he does the same you are not prepared to do it.
Reply:i think your boy frined is being a bit of a jerk. high heels hurt! they're ok sometimes, you should feel free to where whatever kind of shoe you like- flat, stilleto, whatever.





a guy who's interested in dictating what kind of footwear you wear and when you wear it doesn't sound like much of a catch to me.
Reply:Buy a pair in his size. Tell him that he doesn't have to wear them in public, but if he wears them in your presence in private (and not just sitting in front of the TV), you will match him minute for minute wearing yours on a date.


As for getting rid of your flats, tell him to go to hell. And if that's not good enough for him, dump the controlling creep before he starts slapping you around.
Reply:Well that is common, my boyfriend enjoys when i wear heels also, he says that i look sexy and it brings up my butt rounder. if i were you, like myself, i wear them in the bedroom or when iam out to dinner, otherwise tell him that they are uncomforable and wear your sneakers or flat, like i do. good luck.
Reply:most probably it accentuates your butt when you're wearing heels and you look sexy but it's way too much to do it so often. My suggestion is use tact and be diplomatic in reaching out your dissent to this and if he loves you really, he will understand your predicament.
Reply:guys like to have sexy gfs. Heels make you taller and "Statuesk". they also make your bust stick out and your butt. Bottom line is he thinks you are sexy and wants to show you off! It's like you asking him to wear muscle shirts all the time to show off his chest and arms.
Reply:I hope he's willing to pay for your future chiropractic bills. What a jerk.
Reply:The bloke does not have any idea what wearing high heel exclusively does to your feet. It can also really screw up your balance and spine. They do make your legs look nice but are not appropriate for all occasions. Frankly, I think it is very controlling and does not consider your needs. I would tell him that when he starts wearing them full time for a month or so I would match him occasion for occasion. Your problems with this man are going to run much deeper than shoe and chiropractic bills. Good luck!
Reply:don't change for him.....he should love you for you and what you wear not what he wants you to wear....be yourself...not what he wants you to be...there is nothing wrong with wearing them for him but all the time and getting rid of all the others...no way....don't do it girlie...
Reply:Yes it is too much.
Reply:Uh, yeah, that's just creepy. It's fine for him to ask you to wear them more often, and encourage you positively. But to tell you to get rid of all your other shoes. Your sense of style is a big part of who you are. Don't let him take that away from you.
Reply:Get a new boyfriend!
Reply:he needs a time out there is only so much a girl can wear to be in style and heels is not everything. let him know that although heels look good to him it will also give you health problems in the future. heels is not a compliment to every good style. let him know that your style is all about you if you dont feel comfortable you wont look good. you have to be comfortable in what you wear
Reply:f him girl-wear what i like, put the heels on in bed-they ALL like that, otherwise find a new guy-i am 5-10, i'll wear the 4" heels and look down at the lil small minded(maybe more) brained guy
Reply:did u ask him why he wants u to do this maybe he has a high heel fetish or something a lot of guys like feet and shoes so ask him and if u dont feel comfortable with it dont do it
Reply:i think that wearing heels everyday is too much and you need to get a new boyfriend, who doesn't wish he looked as good as you do in heels
Reply:Great request. It is truly a crystal ball. If he is your boyfriend and asking you to only wear high heels, Lord help you if you marry him. If you plan to stay with him, go ahead and wear the high heels, because that won't hold a candle to the pain and misery you are in for during your time with him.
Reply:You must look HOT in those heels.....Where what you want though but why not get him excited once in awhile?
Reply:I thank you need to Read leg show (mag) that's what we like to wear but are scared to tell you women, because women thank that a man who dos is gay and that's not true we are st rat,but wont to ware your shows all man talk about it be hid your back but will Ly Intel you gave up asking.Am sorry but that true. p.s DO NOT GET RID OF YOUR SHOES I BEG YOU NOT TO you make him stop trying to be your Father,you already have one,Am a man and i well always wear them.that my true love.
Reply:Your boyfriend is crazy. Why are you with him!
Reply:Sounds like he has a shoe fetish. Gross. Tell him you have a g-string fetish and from now on you want all his underwear thrown out and replaced with g-strings. Tell him you dont wanna see him in nothing but the g-string unless you can compromise about the heels. Let him see how unreasonable hes being. I wish my husband would tell me what to wear.that would be his worst mistake ever and he knows it. lol
Reply:don;t go with the boyfriend , 4'' is a lot and it can be dangerous for u .
Reply:he probably thinks you have a fat stomach
Reply:wow. thats a little too much. he cant tell u how to dress. he can say. hey baby, i think u look good in heels. u should wear them more often. but no way in hell can he make you get rid of ur clothes just cus he wants u to.
Reply:Dump him.You shouldn't have to give up any thing for his selfish pleasures.



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